A decade back guys would never have
thought of learning how to impress a girl online. But the 21st
century and the social networking boom calls for changes, one of them
is meeting people online. If you are a guy who wants to impress a
girl on Facebook, Twitter or other social networking websites, here
are tips that you can use to project a positive personality. You may
be surprised to know that posting a picture of six-pack may not be
the best way to win your woman's heart.
1) Don't keep updating your status or
tweets every few minutes
Unless the girl you are trying to
impress spends her life on Facebook and Twitter, you should refrain
from updating your status every few minutes. A real guy has things to
do and places to be in life.
He is not supposed to be online 24/7.
On the flipside, a 21st century guy is also supposed to be active on
social networking websites, else he may be called a loner. To play
safe and life everything else in life, update your status and tweet
in moderation.
This picture may look good in an ad
campaign. But if you are going to post such self portraits of
yourself on your Facebook page or Timeline, you could be judged as
someone who is self obsessed or worst yet, a poser. | Source
2) Stop uploading pictures of yourself
in model-like poses
It's good to be proud about your
bulging biceps or think that you are mirror cracking material. But if
you keep uploading pictures of yourself in model like poses including
close-ups of your muscles may very well put off the fairer sex.
If you want to impress a girl online by
posting pictures on Facebook or Twitter, upload the ones that have
not been taken by you. You should upload pictures in which you are
with friends and having a good time. They show that you are fun to
hang around with, a quality that every woman loves a man to have.
3) Post messages and tweet about
current affairs
The 21st century woman appreciates a
guy with brawn and brains. If you are out to impress a certain
someone on social networking sites, it is a good idea to post or
tweet about current affairs.
While you do that, have an opinion. It
can be something as simple as a trending celebrity habit that you
disapprove of or something as complicated as a recent government
policy that you don't like. It will show the girl that you are much
more than just a six-pack.
4) Talk and interact with a variety of
friends and contacts
A complete man knows how to interact
with different types of people. And that's exactly the image you'd
want to portray on your online profile too. On Facebook, make sure
that your Timeline has messages from different people talking about
different things.
On Twitter, make sure you are
interacting with multiple twitter users rather than just bouncing off
impromptu and stupid messages with your close knit friends. Girls
love guys who are street smart and are good at conversation. Your
ability to converse with different people from different backgrounds
will make you, well, lovable!
Did one of your friends upload a
picture in which you are there too? Make sure you tag yourself if you
like the picture! | Source
5) Tag yourself in pictures uploaded by
other friends
If your friends have uploaded pictures
of you, make sure you tag them and let the whole world know that
other people want to upload pictures of you in their accounts.
It is a way to show that you are
popular amongst your friends and that you are in good company. A
woman loves a man who knows how to have a fun time with friends.
6) Build a good following of friends
and followers
Just like girls like guys who have a
good set of friends, your lady love will love the fact that you have
a good set of friends on Facebook and followers on Twitter. Mind you,
a good following does not necessarily mean a large following. A good
online friend circle comprises of people who have interesting
profiles and follow ethical online practices.
7) Don't indulge in cyber bullying or
overtly teasing someone online
What you may think of as friendly
banter may very well be ripping the self confidence out of someone
you are teasing online. No one likes it to befriend a loudmouth or a
guy who does not think before he speaks.
Avoid making unnecessary fun of others
online because you could be unknowingly be indulging in cyber
bullying. If your Facebook Timeline shows that you are a friendly,
responsible and respectable guy, your online profile will speak
volumes of your real life character and personality.
Do you have a hobby or an interest? For
example, like playing the guitar? Then why not tell the world about
it rather than coming off as a bland and boring personality. | Source
8) Update your groups and interests
Imagine a girl asking you "Hey
what are your hobbies?" or "What are your interests in
life?" and you say "Nothing" with a blank look on your
face. That would probably ruin your chances to have even a second
conversation with that girl, let alone a cozy date.
If you are trying to impress a girl on
Facebook or Twitter, you might as well as update your Interests and
Hobbies. Imagine that special someone looking at your profile page
and reading your interests of Wine Tasting, Hiking, being an art
connoisseur, Travelling and Reading as opposed to a blank portion of
your profile.
9) Your profile picture matters most
Do you think that using a hunky
celebrity's picture as your profile pic on Facebook is going to grab
the attention of millions of girls? You may receive hundred of friend
requests from fake accounts with fake pictures.
For a real following, make sure that
your profile picture is a warm and welcoming photo of yourself. Don't
let it be a close up of your face and don't let it be a poser snap. A
picture of you in good clothes at a party, event or while just
hanging with friend should be a welcome sight.
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